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Personal and Subjective Biases: What Does “Trashy” Say About the Person Making the Judgment?

  So, after my little break from this topic last week, I’m back to my exploration adventure about the concept of a “Trashy” Woman. However, be aware that in order to write this post I had to look into other fields of knowledge, hence I’m going to identify the sources I’ve consulted at the bottom of the page. Now, without further ado let us move onwards. After some research and much thinking on the subject, I have concluded that when we hear someone label a woman as “trashy”, the simple use of the term often reveals more about the person using it than about the woman being judged. This is mainly because personal upbringing, cultural influences, and social values shape what individuals consider to be inappropriate, excessive, or vulgar. For example, people who have been raised with traditional values may view women who reject modesty as rebellious or indecent, while others who embrace progressive ideals may see "trashiness" as a subjective and classist construct. Several ...

The Bloodstar - A Estrela de Sangue

  Now also available in Portuguese. Agora também disponível em Português. Sinopse: No virar do século, a jovem Amelia Pattison viu sua vida ser brutalmente arrancada das garras da mortalidade e mergulhada nas sombras da imortalidade. Transformada em vampira contra sua vontade, ela encontrou refúgio e orientação nos braços do enigmático Alexander, um vampiro antigo que lhe ensinou a sobreviver no mundo oculto da noite. Mas sua nova existência, construída sobre segredos e sedução, desmorona na fatídica noite de Ano Novo de 1899, quando um ataque inesperado de lobisomens a separa de tudo o que conhecia.   Capturada pela matilha liderada pelo implacável Jack, Amelia se vê em um perigoso jogo de dominação e desejo, onde seu corpo e alma são disputados entre seu antigo amante e seu captor. Entre promessas quebradas, traições e um vínculo inegável com seu algoz, ela se depara com uma verdade inescapável: nem todos os monstros escondem presas, e nem todo amor nasce da luz.   Enqu...

Cultural Perceptions: Who Decides What Is Trashy?

  So back to the matter at hand.  Cultural norms play a crucial role in shaping the perception of what is considered "trashy." The label is often applied inconsistently, reflecting societal values that evolve over time and differ across regions, classes, and subcultures. As I have stated before, many times, what is deemed inappropriate or vulgar in one society may be perfectly acceptable or even aspirational in another. For instance, a good example of how what is deemed inappropriate or vulgar in one society may be acceptable or even aspirational in another is the perception of female body modification and beauty standards. In Brazil, for instance, undergoing plastic surgery, particularly procedures like butt lifts or breast augmentation, is often seen as a status symbol, associated with beauty and self-care. In contrast, in France, excessive cosmetic surgery is often frowned upon and associated with artificiality or insecurity. A woman who flaunts surgically enhanced feature...

Historical Perspectives: The Origins of the “Trashy” Woman

  Although I’m a little bit late on my postings, I haven’t forgotten the topic I was addressing, which was: What makes a woman "trashy"? – And that I started exploring in my previous article " The Making of a TrashyWoman – A Cultural and Social Exploration. " So moving forward. The concept of a "trashy" woman has deep historical roots, often tied to moral, social, and economic anxieties. Throughout history, women who defied societal norms have been labeled in ways meant to discredit and control them. The idea of "respectability" has long been used to differentiate between women who were deemed acceptable and those who were seen as socially undesirable. This distinction between the two was often drawn along class lines, with working-class women being more likely to be considered "trashy" simply for their lack of access to the refinement and etiquette associated with a higher social standing. Moral Panics and the Policing of Wome...

The Making of a Trashy Woman – A Cultural and Social Exploration - Introduction

The other day I was researching some concepts to incorporate in a character of mine, and one of them was the concept of "trashy” women.  What makes people label a woman as “trashy”, or vulgar. Is it the looks? Is it the social background? Is it the kind of language they use? Or is it a combination of all these?  One of the websites I came across was "Ask Men" or something like that, which had a forum where they posed the question, and there were these users - whom I assume were men - that provided several fascinating answers. These answers varied from "Women who wear gym clothes at the church", to "Women who cuss", to "women who smoke during pregnancy" or "Women who don't supervise the education of their children."  However, no matter how fascinating and amusing the answers were, they lacked consistency and coherency. My thoughts were that the fact that the answers I found were so varied—and sometimes contradictory—suggests tha...

Rediscovering the Writer Within

The other day I was thinking to myself “When did I start writing? Was it before or after I developed my extreme fondness for reading?” I’m not really sure, but my perception tells me they manifested at about the same time. Of course as a child I read quite frequently and even with my friends we were always playing and telling stories to each other. Yet, that was not writing.  The first time I remember writing a story was when I was “talking”, with a friend of mine, through notes we used to put in each other’s mailbox. They were not exactly letters, they were more like the 80’s version of WhatsApp messages, but in handwriting, some were a lot more extensive and there was no shortening or contraction of words, which - by the way - I find it to be one of the most vile and hideous manner of stabbing a language in its written form.  Anyway, our storytelling game started with a dream, or a nightmare depending on the perspective. Though I think it wasn’t really a nightmare, it was on...

Adults Reading YA: Why the Criticism is Flawed and What It Reveals

    Yesterday, on Instagram I came across a post - on one of my fellow authors’ account - about this trend of criticizing adults for reading YA books. I have to admit that I was completely oblivious to it, but apparently it has sparked a fair amount of debate in recent years. Personally I found it such an odd behavior that I nearly dismissed it. But after replying “I don’t think there’s much to understand” to Tanya, I started thinking that I actually might be wrong, and there is something here that requires to be studied, analyzed and understood.   I didn’t have much time to think about it thoroughly, with all the variables and elements that might be involved, but I firmly believe that criticizing someone's reading choices is counterproductive. In my opinion reading, in any form, is a valuable activity, and people should do it more often. So, I decided to get it out of my system in an exploratory manner, approaching as many hypotheses as I could think of and this is ...